I would like to make sure I note- that writing this post has been one of the hardest posts for me to write and sharing this photo- well getting the courage to even take the photo was huge for me. It took me a long time to write it, and even longer to post it. This is part of me trying to be more honest about not just T1D, but my mental health. These are my experiences and symptoms of my OCD so please know that everyone is very different.
What does OCD look like?
Well for me-
It isn’t being organized or clean.
It’s hearing jokes about people who are OCD. Or saying “I’m so OCD” when really you just like to be neat. Or taking a quiz asking “How OCD are you?” When an online quiz can’t tell you that. Hearing comments that it’s in my head- Why yes- it is in my head, but not made it up.
It’s constant glances at my CGM or checking my BG every 20 minutes when my BG is above 200. So it’s also not putting the CGM on my phone or on my pump because I know how I am. So then, it’s also hiding my CGM or giving to friends so I don’t keep looking at it. It’s trying to work at this too.
It’s checking that things are off or locked- at least 4 times. And often texting myself a photo or texting a friend because I’m still not satisfied. (Especially a straightener, the oven, a candle, etc)
It’s being late because I had to check again. and again. Sometimes having to drive or walk all the way back to what I’m checking.
It’s that these compulsions to check get worse if I’m more stressed or my BG is elevated.
It’s having to clean an old pump site or cgm site at least 7 times with alcohol swabs.
It’s having a site rotation diagram.
It’s having your endo wanting your a1c higher not because of lows- but because your OCD is what drives your A1C.
It’s the endo telling you 14 basals are too much- because in your mind you HAVE to have that many because of what you see on the CGM. You have to fine tune every moment.
It’s getting really obsessed over something and throwing all of you into it (especially during stressful times). At some point-
- It was Pokemon cards when I was getting teased and bullied for almost anything. (I wanted to be teased for something I was interested in and not something I couldn’t change).
- It was Poly Pockets when I wanted to be normal and fit in.
- It was Pokemon Go when all of my health issues started along with going no contact with mom this past summer and fall (2016).
- It was Pinterest during finals.
- It’s obsessing over my T1D management at extreme levels that aren’t sustainable which pushes me towards burnout.
- It’s solitaire when I want my mind to take a moment from going a million miles a second, and I’m not at home.
- It’s Netflix or a book so I can escape.
and these are just specific examples I remember.
But a lot of those things are hard to see- unless you’re really paying attention to my actions. Unless I share these with you.
But there is one specific bit that is visible for me- What OCD truly looks like for me- How it’s portrayed to the outside world.
It’s trying to make sure my hands are busy.
It’s picking at my skin because I need to flatten the imperfection. It’s also when I’m not even paying attention while getting more stressed or anxious, it’s something to “fiddle” with. So then it’s also using things to clean it or cover it up.
It’s getting self-conscious after the summer because of mosquito bites- when people keep pointing it out when they see it and tell me to stop scratching. Because there are way more things to pick at it since these bugs love me.
It’s picking at bug bites and scratches and former pump sites/CGM sites. It’s picking until I’m satisfied that it’s “smooth.” It’s picking more when I’m incredibly stressed.
It’s working on ways to not pick at my skin or letting myself get lost in things that help. It’s talking with my doctor to figure out ways to channel it through something else or a way to let it out that isn’t visible on my skin. It’s working at being truthful about the picking which is why I’m sharing this photo.
This is what OCD looks like for me. This is how OCD manifests itself in my life.
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